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Cupid's Encore
The Après Valentine's Event
14 questions for Oxbridge and Ivy League single alumni.
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Let's get personal, shall we?

No fluff, — just 14 science-backed questions designed to figure out what makes you tick (and who you'd tick with). Answer honestly. Your match could be doing this right now too. 👀

So, Who are you?

01 Personality
After a week of back-to back people, your idea of a perfect Friday is?
Introversion/extraversion (Costa & McCrae, 1992) isn't about being shy — it's about where you get your energy. Partners with wildly different social needs often end up resenting each other's weekends.
02 Compatibility
Your dream evening in with a partner involves…
Aron et al. (2000) demonstrated that "self-expansion" — growing through a partner — is one of the key drivers of sustained attraction. Shared intellectual curiosity predicts this better than almost any other trait.
03 Qualities
What do you consider is your best quality?
Kubin et al. (2021) found that people with a clear, confident understanding of their own traits and values are significantly more accurate at evaluating romantic compatibility — while those with a murkier self-concept tend to rate even poorly matched partners favourably. Being able to identify your best quality isn't vanity; it's a signal that you know yourself well enough to know what you're looking for.
04 Qualities
What is the quality you find most attractive in others?
Kashdan et al. (2017) found that partners who actively notice and appreciate each other's specific character strengths — rather than taking them for granted — report higher relationship satisfaction, stronger commitment, and more fulfilling intimacy. What you choose to admire in others quietly predicts the quality of relationship you're likely to build.
05 Values Alignment
Where does faith or spirituality sit in your life?
Lichter & Carmalt (2009) found that shared spiritual values predict marital stability more strongly than shared income, education, or even personality — so this one matters more than you might expect.
06 Passion
What is something that you are really passionate about? (it could be a cause, an intellectual area of interest, a hobby…)
Aron's Self-Expansion Model holds that sustained attraction depends not just on shared interests, but on a partner's capacity to expand your sense of self — through their knowledge, perspectives, and enthusiasms. Someone who can speak with genuine passion about what drives them is already telling you something essential: that they have a self worth expanding into.
07 Lifestyle Compatibility
Career ambition: where are you on the scale right now?
Becker & Moen (1999) showed that mismatched ambition — particularly around hours, relocation, and travel — quietly becomes one of the biggest sources of friction for professional couples in their 30s and 40s.
😊 Happy where I am| Wanting more 💪
08 Family & Future
The kids question. Let's get it out of the way.
This one's non-negotiable territory. Relationship science is pretty clear: differing intentions around children are one of the few mismatches where compromise rarely leads to long-term happiness. Be honest here — it matters.
09 Question Time
If you could ask a question to everyone at the event, what would it be?"
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10 Openness to Experience
How much of a "yes, and?" person are you in life?
Openness to Experience (Big Five) predicts whether two people grow in the same direction over time. High-openness and low-openness partners often look like different species by year five.
🏡 My routine is my love language | I said yes before you finished the sentence 🌍
11 Relationship Goals
No judgment - what are you actually looking for?
Eastwick & Finkel (2008) found that goal misalignment from the start is one of the main reasons promising relationships fizzle early. This one question saves a lot of time.
12 Travel and Adventure
Your ideal holiday is...
Travel compatibility acts as a proxy for a broader lifestyle alignment - planning styles,risk tolerance, and spending values all surface on trips. Couples who travel well together tend to handle life stressors better too (Nawjin et al, 2013)
013 Help Cupid's aim
Is there any extra information you would like to share with us to help Cupid's aim?
14 Sexual Compatabilty
If you were a cocktail, which one would you be?.
Litzinger & Gordon (2005) found that sexual satisfaction and emotional closeness are reciprocally linked - and that couples who openly discuss their needs report dramatically higher long-term intimacy scores. )
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